The Integration of Wholeness: The Sophia and The HOLY Trinity of Facilitation
Published: Wed, 05/13/20
Greetings ,
I am facilitating and integrating some of the deepest most potent work of my life.
Within and without.
This revolutionary approach of The Fire Tree Method® is elevating and expanded to new levels, new dimensions and 20+ years of trailblazing in healing using art as a conduit for transformation and I am discovering more effective ways of evolving deep individual and collective trauma.
And I am in awe. Truly humbled and surrendered what I can only say has been and still is an epic journey.
What I know-
It’s not just enough to be trauma informed.
An Evolutionary Trauma Facilitator must have an embodied integrated experience of their own trauma in order to hold space and guide this process, if not they will get hooked into the lower dimensional consciousnesses (fear programs) that are clearing and will be unable to hold a deeper wider space for their clients…and for themselves. If one is unanchored in the energetics of the Trinity within (What I refer to as The Inner family: the masculine INNER FATHER,
feminine INNER MOTHER and child INNER CHILD) as an expression and embodiment of their own wholeness—one is unable to navigate this for another.
I say this without judgement== of course because I learned all of this through my own trial and error at times--- and being unsatisfied with the traditional healing approaches available through trying different tools and mentors from therapists, coaches to shamans … and systems from psychotherapy to karmic ‘balancing’ and finally discovering what truly worked for me and for so many of my clients! It required me to heal my trauma AND evolve my consciousness to
steward a new quantum multi-dimensional approach to healing and evolutionary growth.
Its divine creation in action.
Its divine alchemy in embodied. It is Creative Alchemy ™
One can not hide from GOD. True embodied transformation is initiatory and we must unlock our souls from the survival programs of the past.
And collectively we are all clearing so many survival programs, templates of denser consciousness such as:
⚡️Fear
⚡️Greed
⚡️Control
⚡️Lack
⚡️Victim
⚡️Scarcity
⚡️Co+dependency
When we have traumas in these areas (many of these are patterns also inherited from the bloodline and/the culture) we stay stuck in a limited world view AND experience.
These 3rd dimensional consciousnesses are surfacing now as more light is flooding the planet it--- this catalyzes our evolution--this density is rising to the surface to clear within and without and if your unaware of your own shadow, you will be pulled into it too.
If you are uncommitted to your own inner alchemy and expression of wholeness—you will be pulled into these consciousnesses vs. being a guiding force and a channel for their evolution.
It is so important to see it as energy, divine neutrality without judgement so it’s tentacles have now power to hook you.
It is not enough to talk and teach about it, we show the new way of in these higher consciousnesses by the embodiment of them in co+creative relationship.
This relation-ship acts as a cocoon for metamorphosis and it can happen in a quantum timeline jump when all the TRINITY is activated.
This is foundational in my co+creative mentoring relationships with my clients. This catalyzes, inspires and re-wires the relationship grids while activating a new way of being and relating that becomes the new standard. And this my friends, is how we change the collective way of relating.
So within, so with out. Its quantum law.
It starts with intimacy with self. Then other. And if that is not present in these deeper containers for transformation--- these codes miss being activated and we fall back into past patterns. It must be done with compassion, accountability and playfulness. Without the TRINITY of these energetics the creation codes are not activated.
Of course, there must be free will. We are sovereign creator beings having a multidimensional experience and you deny your creative power when you deny your ability to choose.
HOW MY BUSINESS IS CHANGING with the CURRENT...
A few essentials:
⚡️❤️⚡️Clients doing deep trauma/karmic work (which is pretty much everyone on some level) need a firm container and strong boundaries in order to feel safe to surrender the pain body and the identities it has created. This is first and foremost an activation of the trinity --- the masculine sets boundaries/structure/framework, the feminine feels and honors the needs and the child then feels safe to breakdown and breakthrough. The ‘parents’ are home and the
wounded inner child no longer has to ‘drive the bus’ from a place of fear and chaos, it feels safe to focus on its expression of imagination, wonder, joy etc.)
⚡️❤️⚡️I have a client ‘love letter’ that I wrote for people who work with me and all my clients read and AGREE in writing to that which states clearly what the guidelines and boundaries are in working with me. I am constantly updating these terms (as I am guided—it is evolutionary! It changes and grows as I do and as my work does…) and as I see fit. This supports what best serves the level of transformation that I provide and what supports me to show up in the
best way possible for my clients! If someone doesn’t agree with the terms or doesn’t align with them then we are not a fit to co+create together. This protects them and me. Also, if a client agrees and then as most do- test the boundaries of the container to see if I mean business –I will give a loving and kind reminder to our agreement, If it happens more than three times, they forfeit their program. This is non-negotiable. I can’t desire your transformation more than you. (I have had many
clients rip off my work, project their unhealed pain in to me, fail to take responsibility for their emotions and show up at my house when I refused succumb to their manIpultion, this is deep work an will trigger the darkest parts these guidelines are here for the both of us an allow me to do my job)
I love co+creating with others and for that to work, you need to meet me half way. If you’re not willing to show up fully for you, I am unable to support you. I am unwilling to be more invested in your transformation than you.
⚡️❤️⚡️I have raised the roof on this as of late and tightened my containers with fierce accountability standards and especially my coaching groups and the results are profound! The energy, the vibe the frequency is off the charts! I would rather have small intimate groups and 1:1 clients who do the work take action and receive the results. This is the only way to empowerment. For example When one person hides in the group and doesn’t fully participate in a
course, group journey or retreat, I have noticed how this affects my energy and also the energy of the group! Shame can not live in the light of love. This is not to shame anyone, the shadow LOVES to hide and swim in shame and we purify it in the light of intimacy and being seen fully by another. We must move together and because this is deep energy work and a co+creation--requiring full participation... all must fully be engaged. If one is unwilling to participate or line up extra 1:1 support,
they will not be able to stay in the group or program. I just had a group start with 8 and now it has 5. And I’m ok with this because it is 5 aligned active fully participating clien! So much fun to work with people who do the work...I see where I was lax in the past (my own stuff on being overly compassionate and a fear deep down of being rejected/abandoned for being in my true power & full-self expression) I see now, where it wasn’t serving anyone, especially in my experience with other
groups and others coaches (everyone is doing it this way! ‘To make $$$ and grow your client base you do it like this—put your content in canned sessions online to maximize your efficiency and time’'!) ---- found with that approach there were such leaky, messy containers that people were missing out on going deeper and up-leveling in a big way in their lives and actually receiving real long lasting shifts & true embodied shifts & results!
⚡️❤️⚡️I RECORD ALL OF MY SESSIONS – trauma creates a split in Self-identity, the work I do allows an expression of the trauma imprint multi-dimensionally (mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, energetic etc) and a rewiring of the karmic pattern so as one clears, releases and expresses their trauma imprints on all dimensions--- there is a love, acceptance allowing of this imprint and as the energy moves to integrate, the old false identity, the one created in
response to the trapped trauma – begins to dismantle and the soul fragment begins to reintegrate, the true self - led by the higher self becomes to re - emerge in the driver seat. Recording sessions offers both clarity, accountability for both me and my clients to show up fully and transparently as we navigate these deeper terrains together. It also provides recordings so when I am unavailable outside session or Voxer responses, they can replay over and over an assimilate new ways of
being.
With recordings audio/video they can see their process and I can witness in a safe container. It also offers accountability and integration for the trauma identified self. Trauma can not hide in the light of love----and therefore the only way is to be integrated into the wholeness of Self.
Often times, one tends to swing during this process while being empowered to alchemize the trauma vs stay identified with it. Please understand this is a new evolutionary consciousness and approach to healing. I do not heal my clients, I empower and activate them to heal and evolve themselves through OUR full-self expression. When I am fully self-expressed then it inspires my clients to be as well. I teach them how to heal & reveal themselves and it
activates them as I am the embodiment of these higher frequencies – through the TRINITY of this inner family relationship.
⚡️❤️⚡️I am working people intensively for 1 week - 6 week immersions. They have Voxer support and a private online group with me as well as sessions when guided. That means that we connect every day sometimes more or sometimes less. The investment is equivalent to the level of transformation I provide. It goes way beyond the form or structure or some kind of hourly rate. I honor my boundaries in the process, honor the energetic exchange and trust in the flow of
my curriculum and process to provide the framework and structure. This is way beyond the linear approach to healing and traditional therapeutic support which I found from my clinical training as a psychotherapist very limiting and ineffective. These larger, deeper containers allow us to address what is coming up multi-dimensionally using quantum creative tools, in the moment and frees us both.
⚡️❤️⚡️ My role as an alchemist and a facilitator is to hold the vision of this evolutionary process and my clients in the highest loving context with compassion and detachment (Divine Mother), firm boundaries of accountability and containment for safety and protection and passion in action (Divine Father) so we may travel these deeper waters in the quantum and the Divine inner child feels safely held in order to express and release the old way of being. Oh did
I say super playful too! There must be space here for all parts to express themselves.
<This is the Holy Trinity of Sophia of... Facilitating deep long lasting embodied transformation>
⚡️❤️⚡️The bigger the wounded ego identification (the less surrendered to Sovereign Divine Will) the more energy it will require of me to hold this space (boundaries, compassion, accountability) for them. And therefore to honor the equitable energy exchange the program may be a larger investment if someone is needing more support. This varies from person to person depending on their needs and commitment so my pricing may vary from client to client depending on
the purpose of our work together, there past experience and what is being called for. Often I use muscle testing to discern how to price or check an intuitvely guided program specifics.
⚡️❤️⚡️ I refrain from giving guidance unless I am being paid! As Healers/creative change agents we must unhook from the MARTYRDOM a scarcity/survival program/template and the need to change or fix anyone unless they are paying you and asking for guidance. When you are truly Sovereign you are unattached – its not that you don’t care, its that you don’t carry and are unwilling to sacrifice your own energy flow for someone who is unwilling to honor your
gifts/value. Of course there are a few exceptions - if I am guided to give support unattached from higher self I do, without attachment. However I do refrain from doing the deeper work without a clean and clear investment and container- as money is a big part of the container--the framework and agreement (boundaries, safe space) . This is essential in the New Economy!
This frees other people (and yourself ) to make and take responsibility for your own choices and can also discern who is available and capable of co+creation ( truly e-motional self responsible and committed to conscious creation) and who isn’t…
⚡️❤️⚡️----> If you are interested in being informed on upcoming my certification training in The Alchemical Arts MASTERY and becoming a Trauma Evolved ™ facilitator, please let me know here
ps. ...
1) this is not a typical linear training ...and certification
2) this is a calling to be part of a MOVEMENT and a revolutionary way of working with trauma, as aTrauma Evolved ™ facilitator
3) This is a Stewardship and Mastery program with the focus on embodiment.
4) If this above deeply resonates for you and YOU want to experience this for yourself and be supported to align with your souls purpose and authority I would love to connect with you.
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